Set Goal hangover?

Post-Marathon Blues got you down?
Ok, for all you non-LA runners you’re probably thinking this blog is not for you…WRONG! If you have ever set a goal, hit a goal and then woke up the next day keep reading:)

The other day one of my NurtiBullet team members wrote on Facebook “Marathon Blues”. If you. Are not a runner you’re thinking she’s crazy if you. Are a runner you probably have an idea. Basically, Natalia is feeling the aftermath. After the runners High has left the body. After the muscle soreness has subsided. The Marathon Blues are the NOW WHAT’s many of us feel after working so hard towards a goal, hitting it, celebrating and then waking up the next day wondering what next.

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Another Marathon Blues example… You spend months preparing for your birthday party! You plan the details, set it up, plan your outfit and the details. The party happens, goes amazingly of course. Then the next morning you wonder what you’ll be doing with all that extra time in your schedule, in your daily thoughts…you with me now?

Think about the last goal you achieved. Now go back to that moment…was it fireworks, giddiness, excitement, elation…? The next day how did you feel?the next week where were you at? Did you have your next goal already set up or a plan in place about what achieving that goal would mean. What did you do after hitting it? How did you feel?

This morning while on my run with a few teammates. I overheard my co-captain “does the pressure feel like its on or off now that LAmarathon is over?

After you hit your last goal what was the pressure like? Was there any?

For me for example I would totally be feeling the marathon blues except…I already had my next race and running schedule mapped out! I realized after hitting several non-running related goals that having a new project continuing the project I was working on was the best way to keep the momentum going! For example, I wrote my first book! It was amazing to send it off to the publishers a finished manuscript. But then I had all this extra time and I found myself having the goal achieved hangover…I had no other project lined up to continue the original goal. It’s like arriving at your destination without an agenda. Why would you travel somewhere without some idea of what to do when you got there?

So, in an effort to avoid the hangover I planned a new race and run group before this last race. I set goals for the LAmarathon and as the race came I told myself this is your starting point. Next race you’re beating the time you set here today.

It worked! I was high, flying from the sky post LAmarathon. Ecstatic for the achievements I had made. Days later I’m still enjoying how great it feels to have hit a personal goal. But, instead of feeling this lingering,nagging or waffling feeling. I know exactly where I’m going with this information and achievement. I have plans in place to continue progressing. Isn’t that what goals and hitting your goals is for? To progress yourself to the next level?

To answer my co-captains question “pressure on or off” it’s both. I feel the pressure of a new goal in the horizon but I also know what I am capable of doing!

So, what goals are you working on? Once hit what will you be doing with that achievement? How does hitting that goal change your world, progress you?

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No more marathon blues, no more goal achieved hangovers!

Winning Combo

Well one year later and here it is my post LA Marsthon blog. My thoughts that popped into my head, my elation, my results and my analysis…

If can believe it I slept very little the night before. Anxious? FOR SURE! You might be too… This was my first half Marathon and I had said my goal out load. Yes, I believe you must set and share your goals. ABSOLUTELY but I had a goal and a secret goal and the secret was out.

Goal 1:45 13.1 Secret goal 1:40…for your information a year ago to the day I did LA marathon the full in 4:14. Could I actually do a half in way less than half what I did the full? Sure…but did I believe it? Yes and no. There’s always that What if? What if I go out too fast? Too slow? Drink too much water or not enough? What if….?

So there I was 5 am getting dressed, checking and double checking I had all I needed. I left for the parking and shuttle in Santa Monica reminding myself to “just have fun”.

I told myself I would smile for all the cameras I saw and just go for it! But putting that theory in to practice I would have to wait and see.

I arrived at the 13.1mile maker in time to settle my nerves and watch the Elite Women and Men run by. Holy Cow! They fly and so effortlessly. It’s truly amazing. Then after seeing several of the runners from #TeamNurtibullet go by and cheering for them I got the text I was waiting for! Raine my relay partner, my run buddy and my “better than me” inspiration had hit the split! I looked up and she was flying towards me!

I started to run along side her, the adrenaline and excitement was pumping through my veins, my heart my lungs! She had hit her PR half and it was my turn to carry us home!

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Raine and I after our 20mile prep 2012

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Raine and I with our “Manager” Kenton after a run this past training

I had started my running app and I was off. Keeping the pace Raine set I went down Sunset towards mile 14 and and eventually the finish line. The “monkey mind” in my head going back and forth.
“Could I do this? How fast am I going? Where is everyone? I thought this race sold out?

Then it came, the Siri of my running app with my first mile pace… 7 min 43 seconds

“Wait what!?”

I decided I heard her wrong and kept going

Mile 15
“Omg I love how colorful and lively the Robertson Lululemon is!” Yes, I thought this no then I did what I told myself I would. I pumped my arms and smiled and ran by high fiving as many as I could. Trying to steal their energy and continuing on.

2 miles in pace 7 min 43 seconds…”AGAIN?! Is this thing broken? How am I possibly still keeping this pace?”

At this point I was fighting with my mind. Do I keep going at this pace? Can I keep going this pace? I decided to just keep going. Like Dori from Finding Nemo “just keep Running” ( ok I know IRS swimming but for the purposes of my race it worked!)

As the miles flew by and they did I realized I was feeling good, I was having fun and “wait was that the 3 hr 15 min marathon pacers going by? I’m running with them?”

And that’s how it went every couple of miles could I do what I was doing? Could I finish strong? I began to slow down around the same place I did one year ago. Part of it… That stretch of the race is pretty boring the other part a little doubt. Disbelief that I was doing what I was doing. That the training I had ben doing the last few months was working. The training that is so unusual only those I was training knew it was perfect but without races and results who really knew? My body felt good, no injuries but could it also make me faster?

Yep!

I was running faster and feeling great! My fueling my nutrition was on track. My pace was holding strong and my hips which a year ago were screaming with every step were quiet.

Any doubtful thoughts around mile 20 I shoved away instead thinking of all the people I was running for. For my partner Raine she worked so hard to put me in prime racing position. For my love who works so hard everyday and supports all my endeavors. For my team, my Nutribullet peeps who believed I could and were out there running for their PR’s. for my charity Girls on the Run. I would keep going because they kept going!

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Team NutriBullet

Mile 22 did not disappoint! My Brentwood Lululemon squad really pushed me past the last hill of the VA. I was on the home stretch. I was going faster than my pace I had told people I would do. So fast… They missed me!

I came rounding the corner, tired, excited and RUNNING! I couldn’t believe the crowd. People cheering and I was passing people. Passing people who began cramping up…passing the crowd and realizing I was the only girl in sight!

I crossed the finish line! I had hit 1hr 42min or 13.1 miles! I best my goal and was so close to my secret goal!

I had done it and not alone which is honestly the best part! I did it with the help of Pilates, the knowledge of my running coach, the balance my muscles from my trainer, the support of my teammates and friends!

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Running Coach Blue and Pilates Coach Lesley (me) post race

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My friend and client Meredith who came to the finish to support me and other runners

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Team Raine and Lesley Post race bliss

So, what are you waiting for? What are you wanting to achieve? Set your goals, gather your support and shout it from the rooftops so that you HAVE to do it!

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Oh one last thing…check it out first place in my half! Yep NAILED IT!

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Next race SeaWheeze same training map, same team more confidence! What will you be training for?

Runners Breath

How often do you think about breathing? Honestly?

If you’re in a Pilates or Yoga class you’re often reminded of when to breath. The breath actually facilitates the movement nicely. I know for me I hold my breath a lot during workouts. Just ask my Pilates instructor and Personal trainer. When I teach I’m constantly reminding clients to breath. When I run focusing on breathing might be even more important.

I have a few running stories about myself and my breathing:

February 2012 the last quarter mile of a 20 mile run I was breathing so heavily but short incomplete breaths…you know those shallow ones that almost feel more like your hyperventilating rather than breathing? I had to tell myself Inhale! exhale! Inhale. Exhale

March 2012
My first LA marathon! I literally did 100′s breathing the whole marathon counting my inhales and exhales. By focusing on my breathing I passed the time and kept my heart rate at a tolerable level for most of the race.

December 2012
Doing 800m repeats on the boardwalk in barely 40 degree weather… The cold was making my nose run which was making it hard to breath. The more I tried the less air I felt I was getting

Today (today’s inspiration)
Treadmill run because I’m recovering from a gluten contamination. It has literally affected my whole body and the last part seems to be my cardiovascular. I decided to do my 6 miles on a treadmill. Yes totally boring! But, I could avoid the outdoor elements which was bone cold wind. My lungs and nose I feared were not ready for this. I was cruising along and doing decent. The last mile was hard. At first I thought it was hard because I was just bored of being on the treadmill…then I s,owed down to “cool down” once I hit 6 miles. Bam! There it was…I’m not sure when but I had been holding my breath. So not good

Joseph Pilates believed breath to be the Internal Shower! He would tell his clients “You must in d air to out d air!”

I was just holding…keeping that old used oxygen in not expelling it out to make room for new air! Of course that last mile sucked! I was making my body run on bad air.

Tomorrows goal and my focus on my running between now and race day is breath. Imagine how much more energy ill have if I breath more? Bringing my Pilates breathing to my running… Talk about a Runners high!

Square off

This week with the weights my imbalances wanted to win! Confused? Well our bodies find themselves in imbalance the way we drive our cars, sit in our chairs, carry a handbag or kick a ball. But, the more we train our bodies imbalanced the less effective we are in connecting to our muscles correctly. The less efficient we are in our workouts.

In Pilates we look at the body in boxes to find symmetry. We look at shoulders, hips and then shoulder though hips. Not wanting to see what hip higher than the other, or shoulders in your ears. The more square you are the better you are at tapping into your muscles correctly. You can do this to. You can feel your hip points in the front and make sure they are in line with each other and you can look at your shoulders is one higher than the other?

While training with my trainer on Sunday doing single leg kick backs with a cable my trainer kept looking for my my hips to be square. The more even my pelvis the more I would tap into my glutes and hamstrings and abdominals. My bodies instinct is to open my hip up avoiding the work all together. Am I working muscles? Yes? Am I working the correct ones? No! In fact if I did it continuously incorrect I would then need to do more exercises to hit the muscles I missed (more time spent in the gym) or worse I could actually injure myself.

Putting my Pilates practice to work I focused on keeping my pelvis level and initiating from my core. Holy cow felt the burn! Abs, glutes hello! When my hip was up I though I could do the exercise all day! Ok maybe not all day but at least more than 15 reps. When my hips were square I was shaking by 12 and thinking happy thoughts until I got to 15!

Taking the Pilates into my weight training keeps me aware of where my body is and what it is doing plus it makes everything I do more EFFECTIVE!

Next time you’re weight training be sure to use mirrors or a trainer make sure you’ve squared off so you’re working mindfully from your core to the crown of your head to the tips of your toes!

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muscular focus

Pilates on the weight floor! Here’s todays training:

Ok, so first day in a week and a half working with my trainer. Did I miss it while in Colorado? yes and no…. I enjoy being pushed for sure! I hate when I can’t do something physically though. 10 days without having to do a Pistol Squat and just running and doing Pilates meant 10 days of not yelling at my legs for not “getting it together”!

Today not only were my Pistol squats not up to my standards (trainer saw improvement but I’m a bit of a perfectionist and want overnight improvement like the rest of the public) but I noticed my focus was being challenged too!

When I am in the Pilates studio taking a session my brain has been trained to follow the 6 Pilates principles. It is second nature for my brain to concentrate on what is moving where and using my whole body to make it happen. Then I get out on the weight floor and some days the focus is better than others. Today my right and left legs were trading spots on which one balanced better and felt stronger. As frustrating as it was my trainer reminded me I have 1hour, I need to focus.

Duh! Ok why not get my Pilates body focus on when I am training? Now, to be honest not every set of pure focus gets me the results I want. But! The focus does make my goals more attainable. The strength gained more noticeable and the least pleasant exercise more doable!

So, thanks Pilates and my Trainer for that challenge today! Looking forward to my next session already:)

just run for it

Taking my Pilates on the Run! Here’s todays adventure:

Cold today! 43 on the beach and all of us Runners were in layers. But, a little chill on the beach is nothing compared to the 8 days in Boulder and Denver Colorado made 43 feel like 55!
What a way to start my morning though. A great chill in the air, blue skies and my running team setting the pace. As a previous cross country and track runner I know running with those faster than me is great for motivation. I want to one day keep up with them! So, kicking and screaming in my head I move my legs.

Today’s run was wonderfully challenging. I hadn’t ran more than 10 miles since my birthday 17 days ago due to illness and my Colorado trip. With my first half marathon 4 weeks away I needed the push of my team to get me back in action and training for my goal pace!
In the week prior I spent 20+ hours in Pilates classes and 30 hours focusing on Joe’s original filmed exercises.

I believe that Pilates is not just something I do as part of keeping my body in shape. Pilates changes how I move all the way to a cellular level! While watching the different clips I saw that not every rep was perfect. That it didn’t even need to be! But, each rep the person was going for it.
So, today! My first 10k back in it and gearing for that 13.1 on 3/17 I did. I stopped focusing on trying to run a certain way and a certain pace each mile. Instead I just let my body do it! I kept those faster than me in my eyeline and pressed ahead.

It’s not about the “performance ” when you’re practicing its about getting the movement in your body. Finding the intention and running with it! (Pun intended)
Just another way Pilates rocks in my day

to buddy or not

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I’ve said it before…I’ll say it again..get a buddy!!!
a good one
you’ll need it for those days you want to hit snooze, skip the gym and hit up happy hour or just go home and drink a bottle of wine
Believe it or not their a people in your life who will talk you out of going to the gym to grab dinner with them, who join you for a run but show up late or talk you into walking…these people are just like the ‘mean girls’ (or guys) from the movie Mean Girls. They pretend to be your workout buddy but really they’re just your buddy. And! thats ok!!!
Just because someone isn’t your running buddy doesn’t mean they can’t be your friend. Call them up for a well deserved happy hour not for a 5k.
Find that true workut buddy…one that yu push when they need it snd push you when you need it! Distance yourself from the buddy who talks you into skipping a workout. Save them for you happy hourr buddy, your movie night buddy or your take a breather buddy.

fuel yourself

well we’re 14 days into the new year. Thats two full weeks with your resolutions. 2 weeks to “get back” to the pre holiday life, diet, jeans perhaps…
I’m not here to give diet advice…WAIT… keep reading
what I’ve realized these last two weeks with my goal (I set goals not resolutions) is that life doesn’t stop. It doesn’t just pave the way for you to Eat better, exercise more, spend less or stop and smell the roses.
Before you get depressed…realize that with your determined self at the helm you have all the control. With careful planning and a little (or a lot) of will power you can grab the right choice, pack the gym clothes and actually get there and hen pat yourself on the back.

Fuel yourself, with friends that uplift and don’t sabotage, with food that makes you feel good about you, with movement that gets you excited about your day and with the goals you want to hit!

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Fab Feet

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I was born loving shoes! Seriously loving them. I loved them so much at one point I even designed them. Oh yes, hand made decoupage Dr Scholls. Someday I show pictures but for now back on point. As a Pilates instructor I spend much time without shoes on. I see clients some who enjoy barefeet and many who prefer to cover them up!

I fell in love with Blake Brody’s studio shoes a little over a year ago. This is my latest pair physique 57and as you can see they are just too cute!

You might be wondering if I’m doing Pilates or yoga why would I need them? Why not wear socks? As an owner of both Blake Brody and Toe Sox I find I like them both but for different reasons.
For my female clients these Blake Brody’s are not only fashionable but functional.

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The bottom of these shoes while not ready for the streets is perfect for keeping your feet from slipping on your mat and equipment. It’s ability to allow for the feet to mold over equipment yet keep them from sliding means being able to really push Thr limits of “bird on a perch”, arabesques and the splits to name a few!

I find my clients like both socks with grips on the bottom and Blake’s shoes fairly equally. However, my clients whose toes overlap, or who don’t like the look of their feet toss the socks and run for Blake Brody’s shoes. Also, depending on where you take the shoes are great for running from class to the ladies room without feeling like you need to grab your shoes.

Also, if you’re all about looking your best while working on feeling your best stylish feet always puts a smile on my face.

But, if you’re not sold on the fashion lets chat function! Much technology went into the design. The screen printed tacky coating makes the shoe “grip” but keep them flexible. Also, because the grips are clear it means no marks on equipment. Something studio owners everywhere can appreciate. Besides sticking to the equipment in a good way. The insole is designed to keep the sweat off your feet without keeping the bacteria in. Hygienic and stylish and functional! Check check check!

Lastly, if you’re concerned about the “feeling” of the shoes over socks have no fear! Blake took care of you! The shoe will hug you through all foot movement without losing a shoe in the process. Keeping you feeling barefoot without actually getting barefoot!

I enjoyed my shoes yesterday while in my reformer session and tomorrow they’ll work with me on the Wunda chair! Grab yours or a pair for your yoga, pilates and/or bar class. You’re in great hands! Actually, your feet will be in fab shoes!

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No matter how much you plan for a trip you can only plan so much. It’s pretty much a guarantee that something will go wrong along the way. You just have to cross your fingers it’s something you pre planned for!

This weekend myself and 5 other Pilates instructors traveled to the 12th annual Pilates Method Alliance at Bally’s in Las Vegas. I know a Pilates convention in Sin City there’s bound to be a few bumps along the way. Here is how a few of us got to our convention:

The ballerina was driving to LV from LA Wednesday morning to get there early enough to take her PMA Certification exam. She studied, she packed she paid weeks ago for this challenging test. She woke up….FLAT TIRE! Yep, of course the day of! Newtons law…. After frantically trying to reschedule the test…not possible without losing the cash she already paid, trying to find a flight out (none less than the amount of the test) a guardian angel in a triple A truck was able to patch the gash in her tire and she was on her way! She made it just in time test taken convention to go off without any more hitches!

The flight ( or lack there of) for Miss Southbay in an effort to be money mindful she booked her flight with the low cost Spirit airlines. With little bags packed and a local LV friend waiting for her to arrive early for a dinner reunion pre-conference she discovered the worst news! Her flight was cancelled and she was charged for it! After frustration with customer service she went into her rainy day mileage savings and found another flight. She made it to dinner and the rest of her conference went along without issue.

The three amigos: they left at the last possible minute for the airport. Testing the traffic gods of Los Angeles they arrived in record time. Their flight (ps I’m one of them) was actually delayed a few minutes so they enjoyed coffee or wine before filing onto the full flight. Magazines in hand they got seats together. So far this trip was perfection. The flight was full, The toddler and tiaras star behind me kicked, sang and told stories about Ms Godiva (well at least the parts about her being naked on a horse with long hair). Aside from the tv princess we had arrived in Vegas, all luggage there. Reservations were made and our hungry selves made it to the hotel. This is where our stories discovers hiccups. No more non smoking rooms in possibly one of the smokiest casinos on the strip. With eyes burning we went to our smoking rooms. Then promptly left.
We bunked it like teenagers in our friends rooms, went to a delicious dinner and the next morning made our move to Paris! Like the others the conference went along as expected.

All these stories have some common threads. We all had issues getting to the destination. These issues could easily have effected our purpose for being there. In fact many people would not have seen a problem with the ballerina or Miss Southbsy throwing their hands up and calling it a loss. But, if you take a deep breath and look at look at the horizon, keep your goals in mind and think outside your box you’ll see you do have options.

Unexpected emergency call on a friend, unexpected expense grab that rainy day fund that’s what it’s for. Unlivable situation grab your bags and move. You focus on the bad or you can control only what you can: yourself. We all enjoyed a weekend of friendship, learning and inspiration! A weekend with 830 pilates instructors sharing their stories and their passions. We all made it home with memories we’ll never forget!

You can let the unexpected take over your plans or you can rearrange and get back on your track! When’s the last time the expected reared its ugly head in your plans? Looking back did you wish you handled it differently? Next time ugly plan ruiner try’s to be a road block take a look at the ways you can get around it. Get back in the saddle and ride off into the sunset!